Why is Parenting So Hard (and Why That’s Okay)

Let’s be real: parenting can be tough. No one handed you an instruction manual when you became a parent! Or that you’d be Googling “how to get my child to wear socks” at 6 a.m. on a Tuesday. It can be frustrating when you’ve repeated the same instruction 47 times before breakfast. We love our kids deeply, but man, there are days when you’re just… done.

Here’s the thing: it’s totally normal to feel frustrated. Parenting isn’t always the picture-perfect moments we see in Instagram feeds. It’s messy, loud, and full of curveballs (like the toy your child will lose their mind over one day and never touch again the next).

It’s okay to admit that sometimes, you don’t have the answers. Or that you’re tired of the constant negotiations (“If you put your shoes on, I’ll give you five grapes”). We all get it wrong sometimes, and that’s okay! What matters is that you’re showing up for your child, even when you’re exhausted.

The truth is, there’s no such thing as a perfect parent. Every family has its own challenges. But in those small, sweet moments—when your child smiles after you’ve finally gotten them out the door—you remember why you’re doing this. And trust me, you’re doing great.

So, take a deep breath, laugh at the chaos when you can, and keep going. You’ve got this! If you’re feeling like you could use a few extra tricks up your sleeve, consider giving us a call or scheduling an initial session.